People who are filled with hatred will always create more and more reasons for you to hate each other as they project their own insecurities on to you.
The solutions these people propose will tend to be extreme because they don’t necessarily want to come to a resolution, they only want to push any opposition to the limits so that any retaliation would prove their point. This is dishonest and it benefits no one but their own machinations.
Stay away from these people, and do not engage with them. Let them spew their hatred. Ignore them and lead your life with love.