If you wish to change the world for the better, first change or improve yourself from within. If you don’t, then you will project your own insecurities and flaws to the rest. It has to start with you. A process which has to be within. And not a theatrical pieces for others to see, because that is more fake and pointless than not fixing yourself because trying to fix the world.
And you know how people will know that you have gone through that process – not by you telling them – but when you understand and act accordingly that you cannot fix the entire world. So stop trying to control and instead try to influence without force or coercion.